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4. lokakuuta 2022
Over the weekend, our friends were getting married at the barn in Caledonia, basically in the back yard of this location. The rented out the ENTIRE bed and breakfast for the wedding party to stay, both the night before and the night of the wedding. We finished setting up the barn and returned to the B&B around 10 or so at night. Around 11 or so, the guys all went out to the hot tub, and a few of them did drink a bit too much. 2 groomsmen found a room downstairs with couches and fell asleep on them. What they did not know, because we were not informed by the owners, was that the quilts on said couches were “display only.” If this was truly an issue, first of all, the owners should have conveyed this to us before we even stayed there, and secondly, he should have handled it by waking the groomsmen up and asking them to please get up, explaining the situation. Instead, he yelled at the groom the next morning, at 7:45 am, cussing him left and right on his wedding day. Shortly after, the maid of honor arrived, as she had not stayed with us overnight, and he proceeded to cuss at her, as well. He told them that he would, “Never do an f***ing wedding again.” These two had nothing to do with the groomsmens’ mistakes, yet it was taken out on them. There were so many better ways this situation could have been handled, but stressing the groom out before 8 am was certainly not one of them. For the remainder of the day, none of us could get a read on the owners. One was kind and considerate, the other very hateful. Every now and then, the hateful owner would be nice to one of us, but it was a rare occasion. The owner was also hateful to every guest that walked in or out for the remainder of the day, from photographers, to the makeup/hair artists, and even to the mothers of both the bride AND groom. At some point, we asked if we could walk the bride through the kitchen to exit through the kitchen door so that the groom did not see her. When we apologized for the inconvenience, as we had been made to feel like we were all morning, the hateful owner said, “My home is your home!” In a tone that seemed almost sarcastic. We could not tell if he was trying to make up for how rude he was being, if he was continuing on his rude streak, or if he genuinely did not recognized the irony of the words he spoke to us. If we had anywhere else to go to get ready that morning, we would have. We were treated with absurd amounts of disrespect, and a day that was supposed to be incredibly special, was instead incredibly stressful. We spent the remainder of the day frustrated, hiding everything that was going on from the bride as to not overwhelm her, as well. We shouldn’t have had to. If there were issues, they could have been addressed in much smarted and more considerate ways. Overall, I would only recommend you stay here if you want to have a terrible start to your special day.
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